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The root of sex stigma in the Latinx community

The root of sex stigma in the Latinx community

 We fear things that we don't understand, especially when we're not aware why we fear them. For most of my life, I had a fear of my sexuality and had...
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Where Did the Stigma of Sex Come From?

Where Did the Stigma of Sex Come From?

We live in a sexually repressed culture and there's a lot of shame in talking about our experiences around sex, whether they are positive or negative. I remember feeling shameful when...
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Becoming Godless To Become a Sex Goddess

Becoming Godless To Become a Sex Goddess

For many of us who grew up in a religious upbringing, the topic of sex was a taboo in our households. As little girls, if our parents saw us as sexually curious...
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3 Reminders For When You Love Someone Who Loves Someone Else

3 Reminders For When You Love Someone Who Loves Someone Else

  If only we had control over who and when we loved, right? Life would be probably be a lot simpler. But we all know that it doesn't work that...
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What To Realize And Do When You Feel Jealous Or Any Other Negative Emotion

What To Realize And Do When You Feel Jealous Or Any Other Negative Emotion

Few of us ever dare to admit the moments when we feel jealous, particularly when we are in a romantic relationship with someone else. We're at a party and we...
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Remember This If You're Grieving From a Breakup

Remember This If You're Grieving From a Breakup

We've all been through that break-up that we swear has never made us feel this much heartache before. The shock to our minds makes us question if we'll ever truly...
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In Heartbreak Lies A Great Opportunity

In Heartbreak Lies A Great Opportunity

“Someday you’re gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken,...
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Seek the Extraordinary In Love

Seek the Extraordinary In Love

"When you refuse to settle for less than the best...the best tends to track you down."  ~ Mandy Hale There is this image in our heads of who we want...
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3 Unique Ways To Help Re-Evaluate Our Priorities

3 Unique Ways To Help Re-Evaluate Our Priorities

  "The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities." ~Stephen Covey We're always on-the-go, ready to happily cross the tasks of the day ahead of us...
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Why It's Perfectly Okay To Not End Up With The Person We Love

Why It's Perfectly Okay To Not End Up With The Person We Love

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is...
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Painful Emotions Have Their Role Too

Painful Emotions Have Their Role Too

In our culture, we are taught that vulnerability of our emotions is for the weak. Our social media scrolling reflects nothing but smiles and good times on friend's and family's posts, maybe...
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Ten Truths About Dating in Your 30s

Ten Truths About Dating in Your 30s

Dating in our flirty 30s is no easy feat. Many of us have grown wiser, while others of us become jaded from our whirlwind romances in our 20s.  But there's...
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