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4 Ways To Spice Up Your Boring Sex Life

4 Ways To Spice Up Your Boring Sex Life

We've all been there. Been with our partners for a while and we while get along great and the sex is frequent, it's just not all that exciting as it...
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5 Ways to Tell the Difference Between Love and Lust

5 Ways to Tell the Difference Between Love and Lust

It's easy to confuse love with lust. Because love can be expressed through sex, it's easy to think that they are one and the same. But they're not.  Sex can...
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How To Trust In a Relationship Again When You’ve Been Hurt Before

How To Trust In a Relationship Again When You’ve Been Hurt Before

It’s amazing how when we’re babies, trusting comes naturally to us. As we get older, our levels of trust become thinner and thinner because of the all the betrayals throughout...
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Why You Get Into Unhealthy Relationships and How To Stop

Why You Get Into Unhealthy Relationships and How To Stop

Known hells are preferable to strange heavens, because it's familiar. ~ Les Brown Ten years ago, I had this repetitive thought in my mind that I'd never open my heart again to...
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Do All Men Cheat? No. And Here's Why You Should Remain Hopeful

Do All Men Cheat? No. And Here's Why You Should Remain Hopeful

It's easy to think and believe that all men cheat. It's a social acceptance reflected upon in our society as the old "boys will be boys" mentality goes. According to a...
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Why Bad Sex Shouldn't Be a Deal Breaker

Why Bad Sex Shouldn't Be a Deal Breaker

I used to think that bad sex was deal breaker. I also was too scared to communicate my wants and needs in the bedroom and assumed that good sex is...
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For Those Of You Dating Someone With Herpes

For Those Of You Dating Someone With Herpes

As someone who has knowingly contracted herpes (aka herpes simplex virus or HSV), I've given a lot of thought lately as to how our perception of herpes may be changing...
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An Uncomfortable Truth About Sex Taboo

An Uncomfortable Truth About Sex Taboo

To this day, I still have moments where I get triggered emotionally on the topic of sex. I think about the traumas I went through around it, the way that...
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How Unrealistic Expectations Hurt Our Relationships

How Unrealistic Expectations Hurt Our Relationships

They have a life of their own and are entitled to growing and evolving in life.

I became co-dependent in my relationships and lived in fear all the time.

I would get attached and couldn't imagine

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Why We Need To Stop Taking Love and Relationship Advice

Why We Need To Stop Taking Love and Relationship Advice

"Life is Opinion." - Marcus Aurelius Have you ever taken someone's advice on what to do with your relationship and regretted it? Or maybe you tried it but it confused...
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The root of sex stigma in the Latinx community

The root of sex stigma in the Latinx community

 We fear things that we don't understand, especially when we're not aware why we fear them. For most of my life, I had a fear of my sexuality and had...
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Where Did the Stigma of Sex Come From?

Where Did the Stigma of Sex Come From?

We live in a sexually repressed culture and there's a lot of shame in talking about our experiences around sex, whether they are positive or negative. I remember feeling shameful when...
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