Variety's the very spice of life, that gives it all its flavor. ~ William Cowper
Things done repetitively over a long period of time can get pretty boring. And this includes sex. What was once considered spontaneous, fun and mind-blowing, can morph over time into monotony and an act of just "going through the motions".
No one enjoys "going through the motions", especially in sex. Switching things up from time to time can get us out of the routine and onto a sexploring adventure, which can help us become closer to our lovers. See sex with a pair of fresh eyes. :)
Here are 6 tips to add some oomph to your sexploration:
1. Have sex in a different location.
If sex has always been in the bedroom, why not try the kitchen? And while you're at it...
2. Use food to arouse each other in foreplay.
If you think about it, food is just as sensual as sex is. We use our five senses to enjoy our food as we do in sex. Foods fun for sexy play can include: bananas, strawberries, cherries, grapes, whipped cream and anything else you and your partner are in the mood for.
3. Blindfold each other.
Not being able to see how your partner will seduce you next will bring excitement and anticipation to you, making your experience feel spontaneous and adventurous.
4. Listen to sexy music while your partner plays with your body.
Another act full of suspense that'll keep you excited and filled with wonder about what your lover will do to you next.
5. Have sex with the lights off.
Sex without the lights will throw those body-conscious thoughts out the window, so that you can go wild and let loose.
You can light a candle as well if you'd like to illuminate those sexy features of yours. :)
6. Have lots of dirty talk.
You can use naughty conversation to guide your lover on what you want them to do to you or to continue what they're doing. It'll keep both of you turned on, since you'll be in communication with one another.
Trying new things is key to creating and maintaining a great sex life. In the process, you'll be able to discover things about yourself and your partner that you may have not known before. Sex is mysterious and evolves with us as we continue to live our lives.
Any other sexploring tips you'd like to share? Let us know in the comments section below.
Thanks for reading. :)