Does Dick Size Matter? Well, It Depends

Does size really matter?

Does the size of the boat really matter?

I had an ex-boyfriend in high school who was african-american, 6'3, size 12 feet and just a big guy overall. My teenage hormone raging self would try to pursue sex with him, but he would always push me away. I let him be and a few months later into our relationship, I received a call from him one morning telling me that he had something to tell me. He told me the reason why he did not have sex with me was because he had a small dick. 

Though I never actually saw it, I'd feel it in his pants when he was hard and you were able to tell it wasn't big. Maybe he thought that by me feeling it over his clothes I could not tell. But I did. And him telling me just confirmed it for me. 

This was my first realization that the stereotype that "Black men have large dicks" was simply not true.

Years and more sexual experiences later, I have come to find that large penises does not necessarily mean greater sexual satisfaction. 

 Just because a man has a large penis or a woman has large breasts and/or buttocks, does not mean that they know how to work what they own.


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Larger size may be more alluring, but if it doesn't serve its function, then what is the point?

According to a UCLA research study on penis size and women's perspective on it, only 21% of women considered penis length to be important and 33% considered girth to be more important. They found that the average flaccid length for a penis was 3.5 inches and 6 inches when erect. They also found that height strongly correlated with a larger penis size. 

Could love be the underlying factor that this study did not consider in women's satisfaction with the size of a man's penis?


does size matter? it depends

Are single ladies more selective in the size of meat thrusting inside of them? This study says so. Women seem to prefer different penis sizes depending on the situation. So ladies, if you plan on a one-night stand, might as well take an educated guess and go for the tall hottie than the short one! UCLA researchers said they are more likely to have the bigger dicks. More likely does not mean definitely, as you read my experience with my ex-boyfriend.

When it comes to race as a determinant factor to penis size, Dr. James J. Elist states:

"an individual’s penis size cannot be predicted by race or ethnicity. Within each ethnic group, there is a large range of sizes. Among the African-American ethnic group, there appears to be a larger variety of sizes than in Whites and Hispanics, which means there are more extremely small or large penises. There is a lot of diversity within racial groups with respect to penis size, just as there are variations in height and weight among men in different ethnic or racial groups."


Putting all this research together, it seems that women prefer larger penises if they are single. I know that I do as well, but I have learned that the size of a man's goods is only one a small part of them being great at sex. I have been with very well hung men and was very dissatisfied as opposed to a man with an average size that knew exactly how to work my body.

Dutch men are tall. may have large dicks?

 This makes me wonder, if Dutch men are considered the tallest people in the world, does that mean...?  

Ladies, does penis size matter to you? Let me know in the comments below! :)

1 comment

Sally meateater

Yes it matters it easier to get a grip on a big penis to cut it off when I catch them cheating on me.

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