Is Bad Sex a Deal Breaker For a Relationship?

Is Bad Sex a Deal Breaker in a Relationship?

"When I'm with you, all I get is wild thoughts…" ~ Rihanna

Rihanna had it right! Our minds run wild when we are sexually attracted to someone else and even more so when they also have an amazing personality to match their sexy looks.

We fantasize about what we would do to them or them to us, hoping that our naughty thoughts can one day manifest into a reality. 

But what if they just weren't that great in bed?

Do we walk away forever despite the fact that they have all the qualities that we seek in someone we would want to share our life with?

Many would say that it would be superficial to leave someone with an amazing personality because of bad sex.

While relationships involve more than just sex, it still plays an important role in the overall satisfaction of a relationship.

So what do you do if you're in a situation like this? Here's our take on it: talk about it with your partner.

Relationships have everything to do with communication. If your partner does not know, there's no way for them to grow. They may not be aware of what they do and what may be considered bad sex from them to us, may have been considered great to someone else that they were with in the past.

If they want to strengthen the relationship between you two, chances are, they'll be more than wiling to learn and please you just as you want and deserve to be pleased. 

If they get offended and refuse to put in effort to meet your needs sexually, then you may want to think about if this is something you can accept in your relationship with this person. 

We all deserve to have a fulfilling and healthy sex life. Bad sex can be a gateway to not only fun as you discover each other's body, but as a way to reach a new level of emotional intimacy as well.

Thanks for reading. :)

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