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Tired of Dating? Take A Break, But Never Settle

Tired of Dating? Take A Break, But Never Settle

From the peaks of getting to know someone to the lows of breaking if off, dating can be a lot like a roller coaster. These peaks and valleys of emotions...
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Can Women Get The Death Grip Too?

Can Women Get The Death Grip Too?

Has there even been a time when no matter how hot the sex is and/or how turned on you are, you just can't seem to reach orgasm?  Chances are, you...
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Is Bad Sex a Deal Breaker For a Relationship?

Is Bad Sex a Deal Breaker For a Relationship?

"When I'm with you, all I get is wild thoughts…" ~ Rihanna Rihanna had it right! Our minds run wild when we are sexually attracted to someone else and even...
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Does Eating Pineapple Equal A Sweet Tasting Vagina?

Does Eating Pineapple Equal A Sweet Tasting Vagina?

Yummmmmmmm... pineapple. Not only does it taste great, but can it really also sweeten our lady juices? That would be a win-win! Many have claimed that diet does affect sex juice...
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The Reality Of Dating An Ambitious Man

The Reality Of Dating An Ambitious Man

The popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey reflects most women's fantasy about dating a man like Christian Grey. He is filthy rich, an entrepreneur, a passionate and kinky lover and the main reason we...
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Should You Continue on a Bad Date for the Free Food?

Should You Continue on a Bad Date for the Free Food?

You cross paths with that guy. Whether in person or online, it was attraction at first sight. You talk until the break of dawn, the texts are just as amazing...
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The Main Thing To Do on a First Date

The Main Thing To Do on a First Date

First dates can be exciting, yet nerve wrecking. We plan days ahead what we're going to wear and on the main day, end up running around like a chicken with its...
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Your Orgasm Is Just As Important As His

Your Orgasm Is Just As Important As His

Many of us are left unsatisfied by our partners in the bedroom. As women, we may have internalized the belief that we should always be sexually available to our man,...
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3 Ways We Can Get Unexpectedly Aroused

3 Ways We Can Get Unexpectedly Aroused

For many of us, depending on our state of mind or menstrual cycle, it's sometimes easy to get turned on in during the most random of times. It could happen at...
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How to Work Through Religious Guilt and Shame About Sex

How to Work Through Religious Guilt and Shame About Sex

For those of us who grew up in religion, it can be challenging to integrate the spiritual aspect of ourselves with our sexual aspect. From the days of infancy, we are...
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How To Bring Back the Sparks In Your Love Life

How To Bring Back the Sparks In Your Love Life

Happy 4th everyone! While many of us have plans to watch and/or shoot fireworks of our own tonight, we thought we'd share about how we can keep the sparks going in our...
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The Internet Has Weakened Our Dating Backbone

The Internet Has Weakened Our Dating Backbone

“It’s right there in the name. It’s not ‘GreatCupid’ or even ‘GoodCupid.’ It’s OkCupid.” - Helen Hong, Comedienne Dating is tough. The internet has made it that much tougher. Most...
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