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Your Orgasm Is Just As Important As His

Your Orgasm Is Just As Important As His

Many of us are left unsatisfied by our partners in the bedroom. As women, we may have internalized the belief that we should always be sexually available to our man,...
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3 Ways We Can Get Unexpectedly Aroused

3 Ways We Can Get Unexpectedly Aroused

For many of us, depending on our state of mind or menstrual cycle, it's sometimes easy to get turned on in during the most random of times. It could happen at...
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How to Work Through Religious Guilt and Shame About Sex

How to Work Through Religious Guilt and Shame About Sex

For those of us who grew up in religion, it can be challenging to integrate the spiritual aspect of ourselves with our sexual aspect. From the days of infancy, we are...
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How To Bring Back the Sparks In Your Love Life

How To Bring Back the Sparks In Your Love Life

Happy 4th everyone! While many of us have plans to watch and/or shoot fireworks of our own tonight, we thought we'd share about how we can keep the sparks going in our...
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The Internet Has Weakened Our Dating Backbone

The Internet Has Weakened Our Dating Backbone

“It’s right there in the name. It’s not ‘GreatCupid’ or even ‘GoodCupid.’ It’s OkCupid.” - Helen Hong, Comedienne Dating is tough. The internet has made it that much tougher. Most...
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6 Tips For a Sexploring Adventure

6 Tips For a Sexploring Adventure

Variety's the very spice of life, that gives it all its flavor. ~ William Cowper  Things done repetitively over a long period of time can get pretty boring. And this includes...
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4 Ways Exercise Can Improve Your Sex Life

4 Ways Exercise Can Improve Your Sex Life

Everywhere we go, we are constantly bombarded by messages to work out to look sexier. While exercise certainly can make you happier with your outward appearance, it also provides other amazing benefits...
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How to Be Assertive in Bed

How to Be Assertive in Bed

As carnal and sensual as sex is, communication is essential in having a fulfilling sex life. Most of us are hardwired to know the mechanics of sex. That's the easy...
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3 Alternative Ways to Experience a Mind Blowing Orgasm

3 Alternative Ways to Experience a Mind Blowing Orgasm

Orgasms are probably the most amazing sensual experience we could ever have. We desire them, deserve them, seek them and meet them, leaving us with a glow and smile on...
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5 Masturbation Myths We Need to Stop Believing

5 Masturbation Myths We Need to Stop Believing

Given that May is National Masturbation month, we decided to contemplate on and debunk a few myths that many people still believe about masturbation. This self-love act has been around...
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The Key to Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right

The Key to Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right

Looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right? Great News! You've already found them.  Guess where? Just look in the mirror. :) This may sound a bit cheesy, but there is a...
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Are Humans Meant to Be in Monogamous Relationships?

Are Humans Meant to Be in Monogamous Relationships?

Love is the greatest and most misunderstood emotion that we experience. It's hard to define what it is, but we know it when we feel it. For most of us...
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