1. You call yourself a sensual maven. What's that?
As a sensual maven, I specialize in helping Women to reclaim their sexuality by leading them through a self-inquiry around their psychological conditioning around sex. I treat my clients as the powerful human beings that they are and hold them to that standard, meaning that I view them as having all that they need within themselves to transform and I only assist in guiding them through the process.
2. Do you work with all women or just minority women?
Although I am open to working with women of all backgrounds as we all have experienced some form of sexual suppression and/or sexual trauma, my emphasis is working with minority women for the reason that unfortunately, there hasn't been enough acknowledgement and help for women of color who seek guidance in sexual empowerment. Many minority women have to learn to navigate their lives biculturally, which can add further conflict, confusion and complexity towards become sexually empowered.
3. Do you work with Tantra or do you teach any type of sacred or spiritual sex practice?
Although the Lotus is a symbol of reawakening that is used in many spiritual practices throughout the world, my guidance around sexuality is based on practicality rather than spirituality. My approach is a holistic one meaning that when I guide my clients around their own self-inquiry about the way that they have been conditioned to view sex, they will by default, be challenged to question their thinking around other aspects of their lives. Every part of our lives is interconnected, so when we can transform our thinking on one facet of our lives, it transforms everything else as well. There are no certain ideologies, abstractions or beliefs needed to have in working with me.
4. Why the name, Tinder Lotus?
Tinder means to incite and the Lotus flower grows out of mud then blossoms into the beautiful flower which is a symbol of awakening through all the "dirt" that we have been conditioned to believe about sexuality. Shattering our conditioning around sex incites the fire within towards taking back our power around sex and therefore around our entire lives.
5. What qualifications do you have for the work that you do?
I obtained my B.A. Sociology degree have done extensive personal development and leadership training.
6. Do you work with men?
Although I focus on working with women, I am open to working with men on a case-by-case basis. Please fill out the contact form below for a complimentary one hour session.